Surviving NJ

Letting Go or Not

2011-07-25T07:23:00.002-04:00

Blogs are funny things - we get all excited and write a lot, and then the fascination fades, or we're distracted by other things. I was able to keep on this one for quite awhile, but then bought my own domain, then another, and another....next thing I knew I had a plethora of websites.

This is one of the blogs that got caught in the middle of it all. It's where I started, but finishing is hard.

In the world of websites, backlinks become gold, so while I normally would have folded it and called it a day, the value of the links coming from this site to other sites has put me at odds. Silly little thing. An old, little blog that I wrote to for so long - that I rarely write to, and yet it stands - because of the places it points to.

Seems weird, and yet it's all part of the deal.

Anyway, just popping in to keep this alive at this point. Quite the quandary....

Moving My Body

2011-05-04T20:14:00.002-04:00

It's amazing how we often times don't have the desire or energy to move our bodies, even though we know it helps us feel better.

As for me, I was having that issue a bit, and finally got moving again - and boom, there's the energy. It's hard to feel inspired to move when you're tired and yet if you make the effort, you aren't so tired anymore. I know this in my brain, but it doesn't always translate to my "want" at the moment.

I'm back to running again and lifting weights. I am thrilled to be moving again. I always feel so much better. Now, if I could ingrain this in me for those moments when "I just don't feel like it".

The Odd Thing

2010-12-26T08:53:00.001-05:00

I don't write to this blog often, I have many other websites - but the crazy thing is, you get attached to the idea that this blog has been here for about 4 years now. Do you maintain it, do you keep it, do you discard it? It's trying to figure those things out.

For me, even though I don't write here often, it's hard to think of dumping all the posts I've put up over time. Silly - the things we get attached to.

Distraction Buries Me

2010-09-24T10:14:00.002-04:00

Lately, focus has been an issue for me. I've got so many pieces of a puzzle that I'm juggling, that I focus on multiple things at once. Of course, that's natural for me. I've never been good at just sitting and doing "one" thing for a long time. Don't get me wrong - I can get a job done, but in the process of doing it - I may be doing 6 or 7 other things too.

Focus is something that's been missing. I understand a little more about myself the older I get and the more I learn my patterns. The things I love rise to the top of course, and I'm really good at pushing things under the carpet I don't want to deal with. Tackle the big projects first, they say...get it out of the way! I wish I had the drive in me to follow that path, but it just never happens even with the best of intentions.

So hereI am Again...Cleaning House!

2010-05-06T12:39:00.002-04:00

I have a lot of websites...one would say too many. I guess it depends on what the purpose of each site is for....for me, most are for business.

I sometimes have trouble deciding or separating what I should keep vs what it's time to move away from. I've kept a few personal sites - but mostly what I do is have business sites.

In the process, it was time to clear house - see what's working, what isn't and came across a site that sat somewhere in the middle...it most circumstances I would work it, build it, adjust it....but my gut said it's time to let it go and move on.

WOW, harder than I thought. It's like a BandAid really, you have to pull it off fast, because I was letting personal feelings into a business site. It was time to make a decision, and my pro/con list I made had more "emotional/time spent" feelings in it - and I know what that means....

It's actually a good feeling when I sort through this stuff. I've found where my strengths and weaknesses lie in sites, in my own business growth, and I'm learning more and more how to pull those two things apart...just some sites are harder to process than others.

....sooooo, that's what I've been up to. Oh, and I'm still running too (see last post!)

And So I Run...

2009-12-09T19:54:00.002-05:00

..I've been so distracted by other projects, I've let this slide. The main topic of my life right now is that I'm training for my first ever 1/2 marathon. It's on my brain a lot, and I've been working on my progress.

I started with the C25k and have now jumped over to the Marathoning for Mortals training. My 1/2 marathon is in March - so I've got about 13 weeks in front of me to continue my training until the big day.

I realize I've slacked on another site that I need to take care of, and even though I'm aware of it - I find I need to push myself to get it done. Over the last few years, I've taken on so many different websites, I've had to pick and choose what I was doing with each, and so many there is just an emotional attachment and not wanting to let go of years of posting, writing or work. Some are working for me, others not so much...

This was the first blog I ever started - so for me - I sort of just want to hang on to it a little longer. I even moved a new blog to the domain SurvivingNJ.com, but I kept this along for the ride...

...I don't know how much longer I'll write to all my sites, since I build websites for business too - but I guess it's learning to break that attachment more than anything...wiping out years or writing seems difficult. I could always move a bunch of posts, but 3 years of writing - eh, I don't think I want to move it all...only some, but who has the time to go through and pick and choose, hahaha

Oh well...for now, running is on the brain, and blogging suffers on this end a bit.

Keeping it After All

2009-10-09T11:13:00.002-04:00

I went through 2,500 posts these past 2 days, and decided I do want to keep it. It was fun going through it and reading things from 3 years ago! What I did do is clear out some crap that was on it, and adjust a few posts.

On that note...here's to another 3 years!

Too much Crap

2009-10-08T13:30:00.002-04:00

I'm going through some of my older stuff, and sorting through it. I'm on the verge of letting go of this blog...and I guess I hang on because it's been here for 3 years. What is it though...what does it represent, and how will I feel if it's gone?

I'm still deciding that.

My Sister's Store

2009-06-27T12:52:00.002-04:00

Hey! Check out my sisters beaded jewelry designs store! I'm helping her add pieces to the website, and plan on adding a few necklaces this week. She's always had a natural talent when it came to crafting.

Be sure to take a moment and check it out! She makes handmade beaded necklaces, earrings, bracelets and more.

Warm Water - So Healing

2009-06-13T10:07:00.002-04:00

It's amazing what a little warm water can do. My hands have been cramping a lot lately, probably because I log so many hours working on my projects - which means a LOT of typing all day long. Anyway, I was thinking - I'd love to go get a paraffin dip at the spa, because my hands ached.

I thought, gee - it's the warmth I crave mostly, so I went to my kitchen sink and turned on warm to hot water and just left my hands under them for about 1 full minute, not washing or scrubbing them, just letting the warm water fall over my hands....

It's amazing how good they feel. That silly little 1 minute saved me from putting menthol on them to stop the cramping....saved me money from getting a paraffin dip at the spa....and reminded me the best answers are usually simple and right in front of us.

So today, at my kitchen sink - I healed my aching hands in about 1 minute --- until next time, but I know that sink is right there if they start to cramp and ache again.

Quickly Catching Up

2009-06-09T22:08:00.003-04:00

The weather was incredible this weekend. I spent a lot of time wandering about..going out for a drive, shopping, checking out handmade beaded jewelry, sitting outside with the dogs, and just enjoying the warm air in general. The weather has turned though and now it's too gloomy for me this week, so I'll get a lot of work accomplished inside. I'll be focused on a couple new domains. I'm trying to get a lot more work done by the middle of July when I'll be taking a vacation with my son.

I'm getting excited at the prospect of travel, because I spent so many hours in my office working on my projects. Being self-employed, I know I can only rely on myself for advancement. I'm happy with how far it's come, but I still have a long way to go.

I made a large transition during the last 18 months and changed my focus. It was hard to take the risk, but I'm finding it's paying off. I'm working hard now, the final payoff is passive income, which will continue even after I've finished the projects.

Teal for Our Eyes Only

2009-05-13T17:11:00.001-04:00

I'm looking out at a bright teal green ocean today. It's funny how the ocean changes shades and colors. We just took a walk, and in one small section it had a clear appearance, and yet 20 feet over it offered a deeper green color. Three shades within the span of one length of jetty....the ocean has a tropical appearance today.

Am I crazy? Nope, my husband said the same thing...the coloring of the ocean has a unique bright teal look with the sun on it this afternoon. The interesting thing is when I snapped a picture of it earlier, it didn't show up being that same color we're seeing in person-- it's almost a transparency the camera isn't picking up....

I've taken pictures and video, and yet it comes up with a slight variation of the color....I find that amusing, as if the ocean is telling us that if we want to see this shade we're seeing, it's a vision for those standing on the beach.

Lobster Cakes

2009-05-13T08:14:00.002-04:00

I've down the shore for a few days, and I tried something new this week. I had "lobster cakes"....let me explain.

My husband has a love affair with great crab cakes, and there's a little restaurant down in LBI that he says makes about the best crab cakes ever. The place is called "The Lobster Claw".

Here's the thing, I love to watch Diner's, Drive-In's and Dives on Food Network, and no this place wasn't on the show -- though Mustache Bill's was. Anyway, I've watched a few places make crab cakes, and in my head I realize that I would probably like them if there wasn't crab in them! LOL I like the other stuff, the filler and binder they add. Funny, huh?

So when I saw Lobster Cakes on the menu, I thought, hey!!! same thing, only I like lobster. Well-- they were interesting. They had a good flavor, mild (which I like), and I enjoyed them, but what was funny is they had a creamy type of texture. I thought they would be more "lumpy" of sort. Either way, we enjoyed them-- I shared one with hubby so he could check them out, and it was a new experience.

Voila...I had lobster cakes...and yes, while I was looking at the menu, the tv show flashed through my head quickly, which made me think about how they make crab cakes, and then I decided in that instant I might want to try the lobster cakes....it's an exciting life I lead, eh?

Protein Popsicles

2009-04-29T17:18:00.000-04:00

Saw this recipe...forget what magazine, but the credit goes to "Maggie Diubaldo" in the magazine, so I want to credit Maggie here too.

Blend 1 cup of egg whites with 2 scoops of protein powder (chocolate), then pour into Popsicle trays and freeze.

Mmmm, mmmmm...I do protein shakes so this is a nice cold treat for summer I'll be trying out! Thanks Maggie....

Scraps of Paper

2009-04-29T17:16:00.000-04:00

I drive my husband crazy, because when I read magazines, which I read a ton of, I tear out strips of interesting tidbits and information. In my mind, I'm thinking I should pass on this cool information.....but the problem is by the time I remember, I have an entire pile of little scraps I've set aside.

When I finally get around to passing on the info, it's outdated because it's been in my pile of little scraps for too long!

Ha!

Keep Your Pets Safe

2009-04-29T17:10:00.002-04:00

I was reading an article about pet safety, and different things around the house that are dangerous to pets. I never realized lilies are toxic to cats for example. I ripped the article out of the newspaper so I could relay some of these things to you here.

I'm just going to do a brief list of things...If you need more info, there's an Animal Poison Control Center.

Insecticides, some houseplants, antifreeze, pool chemicals, our own human medications, paint, glue, detergents, chocolate, and more.

You also have to watch for over medicating your dog with vet medication. Make sure to keep these things out of reach from your pet. Some of the medications smell like treats so the dogs will eat them...the problem is, if they get into them when you don't intend them to and eat them, they can overdose...

A curious puppy can get into anything, so please use caution.

If you'd like more information about any of these things you can check out: www.ASPCA.org/APCC

Such a Realistic Dream

2009-04-21T08:46:00.001-04:00

Why is it that dreams feel so real?

It's wild isn't it? Now, take in mind I have two boys in their teens. Last night, I had a dream starting at 9 months pregnant and gave birth to another son named Brian Joel. The funniest part is I had a natural, home delivery. I am SO a hospital, I need an epidural girl. Natural childbirth is for other women--- not me. LOL

Anyway, I woke up and was like "what the heck was that?"

It's funny how realistic dreams can be, because I was living it in my mind while I was asleep, but let me tell you- If I ended up pregnant these days in my 40's, (and a woman with my tubes tied), I'd be a little MORE than surprised!

Stressed Out? Me TOO!

2009-03-16T13:14:00.002-04:00

I've had my hands full and I've been stressed out. Seriously, talk about biting off more than you can chew....

I do it often, because I think I work well under stress and pressure, but there are moments I hit a wall and go ENOUGH!

See, when my stress levels get high, anxiety can kick in for me, and that just overwhelms me. Stress I can deal with...but when the anxiety starts? Forget it...I'm a lost cause.

So here are some ways to manage your anxiety, next time you're hitting that wall. I needed to take a major time out this weekend to gather my wits back about me...hopefully a few of these will help you too.

Let me explain something quickly...stress...totally different than anxiety...the anxiety comes on and you get that panic feeling....stress is sort of like chronic, while anxiety is like NOW! This is what happens when I hit that point...my heart is racing, I panic, I don't want to go out, etc...I was going about my business doing just fine...then out of nowhere...I can't move..it's too much...I'm drowning...throw me a line...frozen in my spot, nowhere to go...luckily, once its gone it's gone...anyway, just letting you know I understand.

Often times an extremely stressful situation brings on anxiety as a way of dealing with it.

If you suffer from anxiety attacks on occasion or a more frequent anxiety disorder, there are steps you can take to keep your anxiety under control. Here are tips to add to your lifestyle to help you keep your stress and anxiety under control.

1. If it's out of control....seek help. Self-diagnosis of any type of physical or mental condition is unwise and can be dangerous. A professional psychologist can help you understand your anxiety and prescribe medication or other effective techniques.

2. Get better sleep. During the sleep cycle, your body repairs itself. You feel more rested after several hours of restorative sleep, reaching the REM stage. Most people need eight hours a night which varies within an hour or two each way.

3. Exercise regularly. Exercise can help you focus- which may help you see solutions to problems rather than simply worrying about them.

4. Meditate. Clear your mind...Meditation is more than chanting mantras. Simple mediation such as taking 5 minutes to clear your mind everyday can work wonders in the fight against anxiety.

5. Manage the worry. When you feel your pulse start to quicken, count backwards from ten. As you count, focus on the situation. What has actually happened? Resist the urge to read anything more into the situation.

6. Find a relaxing activity. Stress can rob you of your energy. On a regular basis, do something you like such as gardening, painting, reading or listening to music.

Anxiety can come into your life at any time. It’s normal. When the anxiety becomes frequent you could be at risk for more serious conditions. If you feel your anxiety is starting to take over your life or increasingly causing you problems, seek professional help...I've spoken to my doctor about anxiety and we've found solutions that help me when I reach that point.

Spring has Sprung for the Day

2009-03-07T10:49:00.001-05:00

What a gorgeous day we have! It's got me longing for spring. I always feel all hermit like after winter. I stay inside as much as humanly possible when it's cold. I just loathe things like snow, windy cold days and ice anymore.

I want to head south to sunny Florida, but it's not in our plans quite yet! Maybe one day I can claim to be a snowbird, and make the transition of back and forth between two homes. Oh well, not in the budget THIS year!

Newsletter Writing

2009-02-25T10:56:00.002-05:00

Today, one of the tasks on my list is to finish March's newsletter for my LBI site. If you're a fan of Long Beach Island, and haven't signed up yet, you can find the sign up for on the middle of the homepage at LongBeachIslandSummers.com.

This month, I'll be discussing beach weddings, along with a great idea for Earth Day.

I've also got about 15 articles to write for other sites I have. It's a writing kind of day.

What does your day look like?

Lost in Space or Research?

2009-02-25T10:55:00.001-05:00

Oh my goodness, I spent 7 hours yesterday doing research. While it's good to do it time to time, and I picked up some great information, there's another piece of me that feels like I lost 7 hours.

I truly feel that knowledge that I learn helps me move forward, so it's a good thing, so why does it feel bad? LOL

Weird, huh?

Anyway, I'm back to work and back to writing today!

LBI Video

2009-02-16T05:11:00.002-05:00

Check out my new LBI video!

Not the Reaction I Expected

2009-02-14T08:39:00.001-05:00

I was so excited to tell my son about the summer trip I'd planned. We've been to Orlando many times, but the excursion to the Keys in Florida really excited me. Why do I set myself up like this? You see, I'm like a little kid with joy and excitement, and I want to share that feeling. I tell my son, and he's like, "wait, wait, wait a minute, what about this?"

Sigh...well, I was excited about it. He'll have a great time, but every time I look for that "yeah!" reaction, I don't see it. Oh well...maybe next year. I was just so excited, since I haven't been to the Florida Keys, and I know how pretty and cool it will be. Next time, I'm taking my husband! LOL

Plus Size Dating

2009-02-02T09:34:00.003-05:00

Did I ever tell you that I met my husband online? I met him through a dating website. It's true! I was working full time, and don't drink, so I didn't go to bars, and wasn't sure where to meet men my age. I was in my 30's, divorced, busy, working, have kids, and unless someone was going to flag me down in the grocery store, I had no chance of meeting someone.

Friends offered to set me up with their brothers, but who needs that kind of pressure?

Finally, I decided to try these online dating sites a try. I didn't take it too seriously at first, but then starting meeting really nice people! You know what? They were just like me, busy working, and not a lot of time to meet people.

Then came the day I met my future husband. We started talking, and something just clicked. After 2 weeks, we finally got together in person. That was almost 9 years ago! We dated for 3 years (I have kids, and wanted to go slowly), and have been married for 6 years come May of this year.

He is the most amazing man, and I'm blissfully happy.

The thing about being plus sized, we're well aware in life that we can be judged by our size. Let's face it, men are visual, and I was so nervous to meet face to face. I'd shown him pics, and told him I was carrying extra weight. It didn't matter to him. Now with plus size dating sites, there's no worrying about this factor. Let's face it, that's a nice feeling. You can just go on being yourself, and know that your extra weight is NOT an issue.

Did you know you can join Plus Size Dating for free, and post a picture. In only 2 steps, you'll be able to search profiles and more! What are you waiting for? Your someone special is waiting for you, just like my special someone was waiting for me. There is a cost for membership (details on site), but you can join for free and look around, along with making a profile.

Do Something Good

2009-01-28T23:08:00.003-05:00

One of the people I've met on my online journeys is Hayes Roberts. I found his website awhile back, and loved his artwork. He does cartoon drawings and has a couple of books. He did some work for me, and was someone I turn to when I need a drawing.

Hayes contacted me recently to let me know about a little girl with a brain tumor. Little Anna is being treated for cancer. It's such a sad thing to hear of a child having to deal with illness like this. Anyway, Hayes is trying to help raise donations, and is participating by donating two of his books (signed) to help raise money. "The Weiner Dog Magnet" and "The Pirate Monkey" are the two books he's putting up for auction.

Anna's story is here.

Here's the Anna Ive's Benefit Auction site.

Please pass the word and pass this along, or blog about it as well, so this little girl can get as much help as possible.

Kindly, Deb

What a Day!

2009-01-28T23:02:00.003-05:00

I had quite a day today. First I discovered a problem with 8 of my websites! Yikes, this is going to get messy. I was also in the middle of transferring a website from one server to another, and there was an error. It slowed things up, since I had to wait for support to correct the problem. That's finally fixed, but the 8 sites...well, that's another story that I'm not getting into right now.

Regardless, I've been moving along with my other projects. I've been transferring a travel site, and I'm about 70% done. It was a live site, so it bothered me it was down for 24 hours. I hope to wrap it up tonight. Then I'm going to collapse into my bed and call it a night! By the way, if you're looking for bed frames, be sure to check out TheSleepShop.com. All I know is that when my head hits the pillow tonight, I'll be out cold! I haven't had a stressful day like this in a long while, but it was enough to wear me down!

I was compensated for this post.

Micro Niche Finder

2009-01-28T10:55:00.003-05:00

When you decide to make a new site, what tools do you use? I use Micro Niche Finder to help me find pockets of gold.

Let's look at when you're trying to break into a competitive market:

Suppose you’re trying to get into the credit card market...Discover Card pays $40 for all new card members you send their way. Not too shabby...oh wait, did I mention everyone and their brother is trying to do that?

Sounds good, until you do a Google search for “credit card” and realize there are 56 MILLION sites in the results. Yikes, lots of competition...

Here's a secret...Discover applies a 5% cash back incentive on gas purchases, and if
you do a search for “credit card gas rewards” you get 56 results. Big difference, right? Yup, it means there's a LOT less competition. Easier competition means easier money.

No matter what kind of marketing you do, it stands to reason that if you target overlooked, under-the-radar keyword phrases, you’ll divert more traffic and convert more of that traffic into money.

So, how do you FIND these missed, under-the-radar keyword phrases?

I use a program called Micro Niche Finder, and I LOVE it!

With Micro Niche Finder, you will be able to uncover untapped niche markets and completely rule them in Google.

You can find new keywords related to your base keyword that are more profitable than the keywords you’re using now.

You can rank higher in the search engines, bringing more traffic. You’ll be getting targeted traffic, which means you’ll be converting at a higher rate…which means more money!

More information on Micro Niche Finder

I have an affilate relationship with this product. I get a small commission if you choose to buy this product. It does not change the price on your end, but I receive a small commssion for a referral fee.

We Need a Chair!

2009-01-23T22:29:00.004-05:00

We've been looking at different chairs to replace a chair in my son's room. The thing is, I don't want to spend a fortune on it. It won't be used often, since it's mostly for me. He likes me to come hang out and read my magazines in there while he's playing video games.

We removed an older chair and moved it to the sun room. We have since used a wooden rocking chair, but it's too stiff. I'd like a small wrap around type of chair. I've seen something that I like at a house we rented at the shore. Now I have to find that somewhere where I can buy it! I'm thinking it's an Ikea type of chair, but I can't be certain.

Sunsweet Boosters

2009-01-17T22:22:00.000-05:00

Have you heard of these? Sunsweet Boosters are a new juice that’s being distributed in the New Jersey and New York area. I was given the opportunity to check it out, and tasted 2 of the flavors. I tried the Apple and the Grape, but they have other flavors also. Here’s the thing, it’s not really about the flavors. It’s what’s packed into each bottle of Sunsweet Boosters. Each bottle packs a punch of antioxidants, or maybe calcium. It depends on what type you get.

Here’s the scoop, the juice has added nutrients in them. There are different versions of the boosters, five in all. There’s Antioxidant Booster, Calcium Booster, Fiber Booster, Heart Booster and Immunity Booster.

You can currently find them in local stores like A&P, Superfresh, along with others. I was surprised Whole Foods wasn’t on the list, because they remind me of something I’d find there.

The only issue I see is the pricing. While they contain great nutrients in them, the price for a 16 ounce bottle will set you back between $2.99 and $3.49. A little steep when people are trying to cut back on expenses.

Their website is at SunsweetBoosters.com if you want to check them out.

Dinner's Ready!

2009-01-17T17:47:00.001-05:00

Time to go eat! Baby Jack (our little Jack Russell) is trying to climb up on my lap as I type! The timer went off in the kitchen and he went flying. The dogs recognize the timer and all wait for me to come in when it goes off!

Guess, I'd better go get it! Cheers, chicken and asparagus for us tonight.

Power Supplies and Books

2009-01-17T17:39:00.003-05:00

We ordered a new power supply for my husband's computer. It's amazing how fast that thing came in. Anytime we order anything from Amazon, it's here in a day or two. We love that place. Amazon books are usually here within 2 days! The kicker was my husband actually started to order it on another site, but the site froze up, so he checked Amazon. He ended up saving $34! He got free shipping, and it was $10 cheaper.

I don't know if you know about Buy.com, but they're another great place to get stuff online. It seems like they have just about anything you could want. If you haven't checked them out yet, you might want to. You can grab some good deals!

We're just having so many great deals this week! I wish all weeks were like this.

I was compensated for this post.

Peanut Butter, NO!!!!

2009-01-17T17:23:00.002-05:00

So now we have been warned to avoid peanut butter for awhile. Hopefully I have a few jars stocked up. I used peanut butter in my smoothie all the time. I do chocolate peanut butter protein shake. I didn't get sick from this jar that's open, so I've got that. I wonder how long this one will go on.

Remember the tomato thing? That lasted awhile...and I do not like my shake without the peanut butter in it!

Call out the guards, get Sherlock Holmes, let's solve this peanut butter puzzle. Why can't it be something yucky like zuchinni or brussel sprouts of something?

Enable's Walk N Roll

2009-01-15T10:16:00.002-05:00

The Enable Walk ‘n’ Roll Charity Walk will take place on February 8th. No need to be concerned with the chilly weather, as this event takes place indoors. Did you know you can even bring your child, and walk with a stroller too? There is no commitment to how long you’ll walk…it’s just a good time event, which helps promote a great cause.

The Enable Indoor Walk, called “Walk N Roll” is an event being held in Ewing. Ewing is just outside of Trenton, so if you’re in the surrounding area, and you’d like more information please make sure to contact the group. The event takes place at 1pm at the PEAC Health and Fitness Center. (Feb 8)

Enable is hoping to find people who can not only participate in the walking event, but also help raise pledges for the walkers.

If you’d like more information: email- walk@enablenj.org, website- www.enablenj.org, or you can call Kirsten Yard (609)987-5003 (extension 124)

What is Enable, Inc? They are a non-profit group that helps people with disabilities. They also help the families of those with disabilities. They are based around serving and supporting the Central New Jersey area. You can learn more about this organization at www.enablenj.org

From their site: “Enable has grown through the years and now offers a variety of community based programs that promote inclusion, independence, safety and improved quality of life for individuals with disabilities in our communities.”

I'm Back!

2009-01-03T19:10:00.002-05:00

I'm back after a break. Dear goodness the holidays whooped up on me fast and sped through this household like crazy. I enjoyed the holidays, but I'm also glad to be back to my regular schedule. On that note, I guess it's time to update you a bit!

Lost Track of Time!

2008-12-21T22:11:00.001-05:00

I thought it was the 19th today, so imagine my surprise when I realized it was the 21st, and Christmas is just days away! Yikes! I have no idea how I lost two days, but maybe it was being housebound with the weather, and spending a bunch of hours each day working on projects. I guess the time just got away from me.

I hope everyone has a great holiday season, including Christmas and what ever celebration your family enjoys. New Year's isn't far behind it, and soon enough, we'll be welcoming in January of 2009!

Icy Roads Aren't for Me

2008-12-21T22:08:00.003-05:00

Man, this snow and ice is probably causing a lot of accidents. I'll be glad when winter is over. It always makes me edgy to have to drive in wintry conditions. I'm used to it, but I never like it. I think about the only people who might like this kind of road condition are the motorcycle accident attorneys who get plenty of work from slippery road accidents.

Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they don't like seeing people have accidents, but an accident brings work in. I guess in every job, you have some kind of need. Just like the dentist I went to last week. He counts on people having problems with their teeth. I guess they're all entrepreneurs at some level!

I was compensated for this post.

Walt Disney on Modern Marvels

2008-12-21T22:05:00.002-05:00

We just finished watching a 2 hour special on Walt Disney World. It was on the History channel, and originally aired in 2005. I'd seen it once before, but it was especially fun to watch again, since I was just down in Florida at Disney World a few weeks ago!

Actually sitting and watching everything that goes into the building of one thing is pretty darn amazing. Watching the process of something that takes months or years to build, like a new ride, or a new feature is just amazing. Amazing is a word that keeps coming up, because it's true mind blowing all the engineering and imagination that goes into the place.

It's not just 1 park, but 4 parks, 2 water parks, tons of hotels, and so much more. It got me excited all over again just watching the show! I'll be back in the summer, and looking forward to discover another tiny piece of the area we haven't noticed yet. Each time we go, we try to do something just a little different than last time, so it's a new experience.

Check out Dermalastyl

2008-12-19T20:33:00.003-05:00

I was recently given the opportunity to try a new skin care product. I'm a tough cookie when it comes to trying new products, because I have my skin care license. I can read a list of ingredients and know what ingredients are used for. On that note, I'd like to tell you about my experience with Dermalastyl-B.

When I opened the packaging, I didn't notice any ingredients. What concerned me about this, was what if people have allergies? I jumped onto the Dermalastyl website, and was pleased to see a list of ingredients. They have them up there for everyone to see, so you can check to see if their products have anything in them you may be sensitive to.

I decided I would use the product on the back of my left hand, while not using anything on my right hand, so I could notice if there were any changes. It has a thick, creamy consistency, and felt lubricating to my very dry skin. I didn't think much of this, and repeated the process for a few days.

What got my attention was when I stopped the test after a few days. My right hand was really flaky and dry, while my left looked like it retained more moisture. I was surprised, since it had been a couple of days since I did the test. It's almost a week later, and my left hand still looks better than my right. Now, I'm not talking dramatic, oh my gosh, that's an INCREDIBLE difference, but I am talking about enough of a difference that I noticed.

One last thing, if you go over to their website to check out their products, be sure to check out the page which talks about the clinical studies done on the products. It's interesting reading, and it's being praised.

Overall, I'd give Dermalastyl a thumbs up, because if it can keep my hand moisturized an entire week after the testing was over, I'm impressed. It's time for me to go put some on my other hand now!

I was compensated and received a sample to try this product...

Working Like Crazy

2008-12-19T20:13:00.002-05:00

I've been working 10-12 hour days during December. I'm trying to make great strides during the colder, winter months. I have a lot of projects on the table like usual, but with this kind of work, you have to wait for the results. I'm getting a better hand on what works better now. I've got more experience under my belt, and I'm also learning new things.

Right now, I'm really pushing hard, and I can tell the time invested will pay off. It's all ready trickling in the right direction, and hopefully sooner than later there will be a bigger flow of income.

It's Snowing Like Crazy

2008-12-19T20:12:00.001-05:00

This part of NJ is covered in snow. It snowed most the day, then turned to a freezing rain. It looked like it would clear out tomorrow, but the weather forecast changed, and we're in for another messy storm system tomorrow night too.

The dogs are loving playing in the snow sometimes, and other times, they're all diva like not wanting to get their feet wet! It's funny how they go back and forth like this.

We Can't Let This Bank Fail

2008-12-15T08:32:00.004-05:00

The Community FoodBank of New Jersey is struggling. This year, there's been an increase as high as 30 percent in a need for food. WIth the economy, and people losing jobs, more and more people are turning to the food bank. The problem is, the foodbank is facing a shortage. The winter time is especially rough, because between people needing food, people are struggling to pay for their rising heating costs. The Community FoodBankof New Jersey needs help.

Over 100 New Jersey bloggers are working to bring awareness to this shortage of food. Let's make a difference, and help support the foodbank. This is a state wide crisis, so that means the foodbanks in your counties need your help.

Did you know New Jersey's own Bruce Springsteen is also helping in the fight against hunger by lending his voice to the cause. It's a statewide issue, and we need to come together to help our own.

Imagine the foodbank having to ration food, or turn people away because there's not enough food to go around. It's a grim and scary thought.

If you're able to help the Community FoodBank of New Jersey, please reach out and help. Even if you can't give money or food, spread the awareness, and reblog about this, reaching out to others who may be able to help. Food is a basic need, and if the shelves go bare at the Community Foodbank of New Jersey, that means there will be people in New Jersey going hungry, and that's just not okay. The foodbank needs the public to step up and help them keep food on their shelves.

If you can help: www.njfoodbank.org or 908-355-FOOD (3663)

The Community Foodbank of New Jersey (CFBNJ) distributes food and grocery items, helping charities in need. Did you know that since their incorporation in they've distributed 300 million pounds of food and groceries. Please help them in their time of need, so they can continue helping those in need. They are a distributor of food, so what that means is they accept large quantity donations. Smaller donations should be brought to your local shelter or food pantry. The Community FoodBank of New Jersey also accepts monetary donations, which they use to buy very large food purhcases. If you have any questions, you can contact them at 908-355-FOOD (3663).

This year in New Jersey, more than 250,000 new people will be be asking for help. With this increased demand, comes more need for increased donations, but unfortunately, since so many families are struggling right now, donations are actually on the decline. That means not enough food to go around. Empty shelves don't feed people.

"At the Community FoodBank of New Jersey (CFBNJ), requests for food have gone up 30 percent, but donations are down by 25 percent." - CFBNJ

The Community Foodbank of New Jersey is the state's key distributor of food to local banks. What happens when there's not enough food to go around? People go hungry...right here in New Jersey.

Please reach out and help: www.njfoodbank.org or 908-355-FOOD (3663)

Here's how you can help:

You can either make a monetary donation. To do that, you can go to their website at www.njfoodbank.org.

If you have food that you can donate, please bring it to your local food shelter...you can even organize a food drive through work, maybe your church or another organization you belong to. (http://www.sefan.org) -for locations

"Check Out Hunger" are coupons you can get at the grocery store. When you're paying for your groceries, include a donation to the food bank. You can usually find these right near the register.

Here are a few statistics on hunger:

* The number of families coming to churches and food banks trying to get help to feed their families has increased approximately 20 percent. - National Anti-Hunger Organizations, 2008 Blueprint to End Hunger

* One out of every five New Jersey families does not earn enough to afford the basic necessities – housing, food and child care – although 85 percent of these households have at least one family member who is working. – Poverty Research Institute, June 2008

Please take a moment to watch this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXH_aBJKcE4

What can you do to make a difference?

Below is a list of the New Jersey blogs participating in the attempt to make a difference and bring awareness.

Participating Bloggers for “We Can’t Let This Bank Fail” campaign

1)JerseyBites.com

2) RedBankGreen.com

3) Jersey Girl Cooks.

4) Simply Sable

5) John and Lisa are eating in South Jersey

6) Padma's Kitchen

7) Chefdruck

8) Life Lightly Salted

9) My Italian Grandmother

10) Cook Appeal

11) Crotchety Old Man Yells at Cars

12) Mommy Vents

13) This Full House

14) Paper Bridges

15) Motherhood Avenue

16) The Kamienski Chronicles

17) Down the Shore with Jen

18) Fits and Giggles

19) House Hubbies Home Cooking

20) Nourish Ourselves

21) Partybluprints.com

22) Tommyeats.com

23) Off the broiler

24) Mrs. Mo’s New Jersey Baby

25) IamNotaChef.com

26) SimplyBeer.com

27) HistoryGeek.com

28) Savy Source Newark

29) Momlogic New Jersey

30) SurvivingNJ.com/blog

31) SurvivingNJ.blogspot.com

32) JerseyGirlGuide.com

33) Best of Roxy

34) Citizen Mom.net

35) Lynetteradio.com

36) Jersey Beat

37) Pop Vulture Phil

38) JerseySmarts.com

39) LongBeachIslandSummers.com

40) WildwoodSummers.com

41) Mike Halfacres Blog

42) Somerset08873

43) Family, Friends and Food

44) KateSpot.com

45) NewJerseyMomsBlog.com

46) JCRigister.com

47) New Jersey Real Estate Report

48) Riverviewobserver.com

49)More Monmouth Musings

50) Man of Infirmity

51) Another Delco Guy in South Jersey

52) SweetNicks.com

53) Average Noone

54) Cleary’s Notebook

55) Welcome to my Planet

56) The Center of New Jersey Life

57) Sharon’s Food Blog

58) Morristown, Chatham, Summit, and Madison NJ Real Estate

59) Midtown Direct Real Estate News

60) New Jersey Real Estate

61) BlowUpRadio.com

62) LazlosDen.com

63) The Ridgewood Blog

64) Book a Week with Jen

65) Banannie

66) Cartoongoddess.com

67) Matawan Advocate

68) Take Back the Kitchen

69) The Joy of Toast

70) Route 55

71) Montclair Kids.com

72) SaveJersey

73) Stompbox

74) Joe the Blogger

75) Environmental Republican

76) Stacey Snacks

77) Subversive Garden

78) New Jersey Pathfinder

79) Cooking With Friends Blog

80) Triple Venti

81) Read All About It

82) Rich Lee on Media

83) Likelihood of Success

84) Cape Cuisine

85) The Business At Hand

86) NewJerseyTaxRevolution

87) Figmentations

88) MiddletownMike

89) Caviar and Codfish

90) A Day in the Life

91) Mack’s Journey Through Life

92) Alice’s Restaurant

93) Tiger Hawk

94)Politics Patrol, The Bob Ingle Blog

95) The Food Chain

96) Henson’s Hell

97) Cranbury Conservative

98) Baristanet

99) New Jersey: Politics Unusual

100) Jersey Shore Blog

101) Plainfield Today

Too Many Projects at Hand?

2008-12-14T22:31:00.003-05:00

I'm finding I want to relook at some of my projects, and figure out which ones to push, and which ones to lay back on for awhile. I have a habit of taking on too many things at one time. I'm happiest when I have multiple projects to choose from, rather than being forced to work on one thing.

On the other hand, having 25 projects to choose from is a little too much. Okay, so that's not an exact number, but you get the idea! It's time to focus my attention, draw up a plan, and decide what I want to accomplish in what time frame.

There's one thing on the top of my list though, and that's tomorrow, I have a very important message to post. Please take a moment to check back tomorrow to see what it is. I'm participating with 100 other New Jersey bloggers to raise awareness on a very important topic. I'll see you tomorrow!

Costly Visit to the Dentist

2008-12-14T22:21:00.002-05:00

I went to the dentist last week, and unfortunately I need to go back again one more time this week. Fillings from when I was a kid are needing replaced. I never really thought about a lifespan on a filling. I guess being in my 40's now, most of my fillings are over 30 years old!

I lost one during lunch one day, and put off going as long as possible, but it was inevitable. I'll be glad when the visit is done this week. It's freaking expensive to go to the dentist! Seriously, it ran us close to a thousand bucks last week, and I'm nervous this appointment will be as much. Seriously, how are people supposed to be able to afford that. That was a big shock when I saw the bill.

I wonder if I hid my reaction at all, or did they see my jaw hitting the counter, going....are you kidding me?

A New Baby!

2008-12-14T22:14:00.004-05:00

We have a new baby in our family. My cousin gave birth recently, and a beautiful little boy is now a part of our lives. It was wild shopping for a baby shower again. I haven't looked at things like baby bedding, rattles, bottles and the like in a long time! My boys are teenagers now, so it's all new once again.

It's hard to remember my boys being so tiny. I mean, I can visualize it, but so much time has passed! You should see the pictures, he's a beautiful baby! We were all just delighted he's healthy and both mom and baby are doing well.

Little tiny hands and toes, sweet baby smell, and soft velvet hair- I love those things!

Christmas is 2 Weeks Away...All Ready!

2008-12-12T21:38:00.003-05:00

Seriously, where is the time going? I can't keep up with the days, weeks fly by, and now the next thing I know it's the middle of December! I went out to lunch with my sister and my mom today, and we mentioned the next time we would be getting together was for the holiday. Seriously? Man, my brain is still back in October I think.

I have had no urge to decorate, and I feel badly about that. Maybe the mood will hit sometime soon. It just doesn't feel like that time of year. Maybe with the tree up it will, but I don't even have the desire to put it up this year! Oh my gosh, what's wrong with that! I'll get the tree up for my son, but I just am not "in the moment" right now.

Hopefully sooner than later...

So Many Options, Which to Use?

2008-12-12T21:34:00.004-05:00

Okay, so yesterday I was talking about changes, and diets. I hate that word, because I've used it one too many times. On the other hand, I hear "lifestyle change", and yes I understand it, but honestly it all sounds the same inside my head these days.

I spent some time over the last few weeks looking at different options, but I finally just decided to talk to my doctor about my weight issues at my last visit.

We did a full blood work-up, which we do pretty regularly with my glucose and thyroid issues, and of course like usual, it comes back the same. Anyway, regarding my weight- we may have come up with a plan. I'm trying something out for a month, and we'll see if it makes a difference, and also if it changes my bloodwork in a positive or negative way.

It's been on my mind a lot, because once again I'm sitting here knowing I've tried so many things, and I've not had a lot of success. Maybe this time will be different. I guess time will tell.

Changes in my Body

2008-12-11T12:54:00.003-05:00

I used to take diet pills more than 10 years ago. They helped me lose about 30 pounds, but then I had to stop using them, because they took them off the market.

During the last year, many of you know that I went to a personal trainer for a year's time, and still struggled to lose weight. I decided to talk to my doctor about this, and we may have found some possible help. We're in the testing phase right now, and I'll need to check back in shortly to see my response. I'm crossing my fingers that this will help me make some movement.

I'll fill you in on more details as I get a little farther along. One step at a time my friends, one step at a time!

I am happy to say that I've finally lost a little bit of weight, though it's not much, when you have as much to lose as I do. Though in one week, I've all ready lost more than I lost in an entire year of working out...because you see, I didn't lose weight working out. I did lose fat, and my body changed shape some, but the scale didn't move. It's starting to move, and I'm so relieved that I may get a chance at a head start.

Fear of Change Held me Back

2008-12-11T12:51:00.003-05:00

I'm really proud of myself. I went out of my comfort zone and learned something new. I had great instructions, so that really helped me. It's funny how often I keep myself boxed in, because I am comfortable with something.

I'm about to make another big change when it comes to some of my online activities, and while it makes me nervous to learn a new system, I know it will be a large benefit to me. I've left myself in a spot where I'm not making the best choices, based on fear of change.

I like to know what I'm doing. I don't want to have to struggle with learning some of the new things I'll have to learn, and yet...in learning them, it will free up so many other resources for me. Here I've been clinging to one thing for too long, and now I'm ready to let it go. Let the chips fall where they may, it's time to face my fear of change, and improve my situation!

Dragon: NaturallySpeaking

2008-12-11T11:26:00.000-05:00

I just recently bought Dragon NaturallySpeaking. I'm actually speaking into a microphone and it's typing as I talk. I've heard about this software before but never really got it. I thought I'd try and save some money and just keep typing, but now I have close to 60 websites so this is a great tool to help me move just a little faster. It's a lot of fun to watch it and train it and see how it works. So I actually spoke this blog post for you and it typed it out for me. The accuracy was pretty good I'm very happy with Dragon NaturallySpeaking 10. I got it at Target a great price.

What surprised me is that punctuation wasn't automatically turned on. I would think that that would be a natural default. I went in and changed my formatting so that it would take care of that for me. But I was honestly surprised it wasn't all ready preset, I would've had to come in and add all my commas and periods; or actually state them out loud as I spoke saying the word "comma" to make it happen!

Get Ready to Party!

2008-12-07T20:17:00.003-05:00

It's time to break out the bubbly, grab your best dress, and don't forget about hubby either. Grab his tuxedo and let's get up and start dancing! What's all the excitement about? I'm about to switch from my old computer to my new one! That's enough to have me celebrating.

My computer has been a little wonky lately, and I'll tell you what, it leaves me super nervous. I am not looking to crash anytime soon, especially since I work on the internet! Feel free to join the celebration with me. I'll be up and running by tomorrow morning hopefully.

I'm about to transfer my programs and data to an external hard-drive, then pop them onto my laptop to make sure they're all there. Next thing is adding the new machine and hooking it up to everything! I can't wait...it's time!

My hard drive has been warning me for a few months now, and I've been doing a few quick prayers, plenty of cursing and such to get by. It's a happy day for me!

I was compensated for this post.

The Niche Blogger is Rocking My World

2008-12-03T18:31:00.000-05:00

Who Won my Testimony?

I've been blogging for over 2 years now. During the last few years, I've done the blog thing, online stores, websites, and just about everything you can think of. I've got close to 200 Squidoo lenses, a book, and more. You could say I've spent a lot of time online, and all with the goal of being able to work from home.

I've signed up for e-courses, read books, researched tons of stuff, but there was something about Amy Bass that told me I needed to give The Niche Blogger a try. It was well worth my time. As much as I'm an online presence, I also keep to myself about things. This is one of the few times I want to rave. I love being a member of The Niche Blogger, and my income has all ready started to increase.

It's the little details I've overlooked in the past, and I'm able to take the information I'm picking up here to not only create more content, but also go back, and improve other sites I have. The Niche Blogger is a no brainer, and I happily lent my voice and picture for testimony on her site, because it's something that truly is helping me increase my own income. Period...hands down, the best move I made this year. Go ahead...start looking around and see if you see my testimony scattered on the internet- I'll wait. It won't happen, because not much adds "that" much value to what I all ready know from being online.

Amy takes your hand, and goes step by step, as basic as it gets. She uses blog posts, videos, and there's a very active forum board where people are helping each other. It's not a cut throat board, it's a help each other do better board. This is a community I was so happy to join, I jumped from monthly member to lifetime member the first month. I know QUALITY when I see it.

I happily recommend The Niche Blogger, whether you're a new blogger, looking to create niche blogs and more. It's the fine details many people overlook, and this time, I'm taking the time to do each step...one at at time. I'm all ready seeing the results of the time and effort I've put in, with Amy's details.

You won't hear me shouting out about many programs, but this is one I'm happy to have joined. I became a member of the "do it faster, take shortcuts" crew, and I wasn't getting the results during the last two years, that I'm getting now.

Kindly, Deb

Last Minute Trip

2008-12-03T18:27:00.003-05:00

We did a last minute trip to Disney this week, and I just got home. I'm still overwhelmed with all the emails I need to catch up on, jobs I need to do, and other things. I haven't even unpacked yet, but it's okay, I had a blast.

I'm exhausted, but it's always great fun. Whether you're checking out the neat Mickey shaped pumpkins, shrimp tanks or Blackberry plants in The Land at Epcot, riding test track, or tearing it up on the Rock N Roller Coaster, there's so much to do. We walked tons like always, and got in all our favorites. I'll be sure to share more details this week, I just need to unwind a little bit first!

I was compensated for this post.

Christina Aguilera's Latest CD

2008-11-20T17:17:00.001-05:00

Love it! Love the CD, with the exception of 2 songs. She redid "Genie in a Bottle" which is fine...I think it was the MTV awards version...but her version of "Beautiful" at the END of the CD (there are two versions on it- this one is called You Are What You Are) is BLECH!

I do love the new hot song on track #12, "Keeps Gettin' Better".

I do play her "Dirty" CD often in my car, so I'm all ready a fan of Christina. If you're a fan, this won't let you down.

Up on the Roof

2008-11-20T17:12:00.003-05:00

Last weekend my husband gave our house a good old fashioned roof cleaning. Man, that makes me nervous when I hear him walking on the roof. I wish he would hire somebody to do that.

His response: It's not that high up...
My response: It only takes one fall...

I remember being a teen and going up on the roof with a friend who was doing some work for us. When you're younger, you think your stable no matter what. You think nothing will happen to you. When you're older, you think of everything that "could" happen to you! ha

I'm of the mindset of the bedroom community- pay someone else to do those nerve wracking jobs, or the pain in the bottom jobs. My husband on the other hand is of the mind set that doing it himself saves a few bucks. Don't get me wrong, I can totally see that, but I'm the one worrying!

I was compensated for this post.

Stop Barking!

2008-11-20T17:08:00.001-05:00

Our beagle and jack are barkers. My big dog, eh- not so much. The problem is our neighbor is out a lot, and they go nuts when their dog is out, as well as whenever the neighbor cuts the grass, their son rides his tricycle...you get the picture.

We've tried all different methods to deal with the barking, and finally caved and bought an ultrasonic device from Hammacher Schlemmer. (spelling?)

Anyway, it cut short their barking 3 times today, and we're crossing our fingers this works. We actually chose this product because of Hammacher Schlemmer's lifetime guarantee.

Should any product fail to meet your expectations for any reason, simply return it with proof of purchase.

Lifetime people...need I say anymore?

Small Changes Freshen the Look

2008-11-20T16:47:00.004-05:00

One way to make a change to your kitchen without doing a complete overhaul is to change one or two things. You can change things like your cabinet hardware pretty inexpensively. Another thing you might consider is changing out your sink, or just your counter top. Think about putting in farmhouse sinks, or changing that Formica counter to marble. Either way, it freshens up the kitchen without a huge overhaul.

Growing up we went from a black kitchen to a beige kitchen, and it was a huge change! Another thing my dad would do is change the flooring every few years to give it a fresh new look. Light fixtures are another area you can look at. What would look great in your kitchen?

I was compensated for this post.

Snow Showers Not Far Away

2008-11-20T16:41:00.002-05:00

Man, the chill is in the air big time! I have a small heater going in my office, along with my house heater. Seriously, it's getting crisp. I'm not one for the cold, and my feet and hands are always freezing.

We'll see a balmy 21 overnight, and tomorrow isn't looking too appealing at 36. Can't I just jump a plane and head south? Man, I was meant to be one of those retired snowbirds, only I'm not retired yet!

Comparing Cleaning Products

2008-11-18T17:27:00.005-05:00

I got a package in the mail today, asking me to compare two cleaning products. One was the Mr Clean Eraser, and the other was a leading brand cleaner. They sent along two tiles, a marker and crayons so I could make my own mess on the tiles, and them clean them. The tiles had an almost vinyl gritty feel to them, so there was texture involved also.

Here's what it looked like:

The Mr. Clean "wiped" the competition this time. I left edges of the tile undone so you could see it was the same tile, and I didn't switch them.

I did do it again on the smooth surface, and both seemed to do well. It's that gritty texture surface where Mr Clean truly shined.

What are you using to clean with?

*I received this product for free to do a comparison. I did not get compensated with money, but did get this product in the mail to try.

Soup Personality Test

2008-11-15T13:32:00.004-05:00

What does your favorite soup say about you? Are you a fan of chicken noodle, vegetable soup or maybe tomato soup? Find out what your favorite means...

I'm a vegetable soup girl myself.

More than 3 HOURS!

2008-11-14T19:46:00.001-05:00

I went to pick up my son tonight, and little did I know that a trip that normally takes 2 1/2 hours round trip would turn into 3 1/2 hours! Ugh, 78 was a nightmare tonight. When things are moving on 78, it's a great road, but get stuck on it, and there's nowhere to go.

After 3 1/2 hours, I finally made it back home safely with my son. Between the construction and an accident, I was more than ready to be off the road!

What a Difference a Day Makes

2008-11-11T18:15:00.001-05:00

Changing weather turns the water from a pretty shade of blue, to a hazy shade of gray!

Back to Reality after a Beach Break

2008-11-11T18:12:00.003-05:00

I had a blast down the shore for a few days. My husband and I took a break from reality and enjoyed time off. We were thrilled to have warmer than usual temperatures, and even some days of sun mixed in there. Rain didn't bother us much on the other days.

We had a low key week with walks, goofing off, dining out and such. It was funny, because one day the beach was so warm and calm, and the next day you needed to wear a ball cap, because the wind was blowing so much!

I've got some great pictures of the ocean to share with you, one on a day all calm and serene, and another all stormy and rainy! Check back for the pictures shortly.

Sugar Detox

2008-10-30T10:47:00.002-04:00

I'm slowly eeking sugar out. I know it's something I have to do. My body is yelling at me to get it under control. I'm on my 3rd day of no sugar, and I know that if I can get past today and tomorrow, my cravings will go away. It usually takes me a couple days to clear my system.

The reasons I go back? Usually a mental attachment to something I believe I "can't" have ever again.

I play headgames with myself, but it's time to give up the sugar again, and hopefully kick it for awhile. I've gone months without it before, and when I caved in, I always regretted it. It's just hard for me to get through these first few days.

Eagle Eye was Awesome

2008-10-20T18:27:00.002-04:00

We just got back from the movies. We saw "Eagle Eye"- it was excellent! It was fast-paced and quite an action thriller. This is one I'd happily recommend to friends.

Even though you had question through out, you found answers to satisfy them. The actors were great, and we thought it was good casting.

I think Shia LaBeouf is easily going to transition into our newest action guy. First Transformers, Indiana Jones and now this one, Eagle Eye.

Property Virgins

2008-10-19T22:50:00.003-04:00

I'm really digging the show Property Virgins lately. We've always been big fans of House Hunters, but I started watching Property Virgins too. I usually go to bed at 11pm when it comes on, but I've been staying up later so I can see it. I love that on Sunday it's on an hour earlier.

It's always interesting not only listening to the host, but watching people's reactions. There was this one group of three guys who were so picky. We got such a kick out of watching them. This last one, the girl being shown around didn't end up choosing anything. Twist ending, eh?

If you haven't seen it yet, and like House Hunters, you need to give this one a go too.

I've Stopped Moving

2008-10-19T22:44:00.004-04:00

I've been bad. It's time to clean off the exercise equipment. I went from working out regularly with my trainer, to barely working out. I have a great treadmill, and I haven't gotten on it religiously like I thought I would. How can I go from working out 2-3 times a week for an hour, to not. I seriously feel better when I'm moving, and here I sit.

I know I need to get back my body moving again, and it amazes me how quickly I fell off the wagon. I wonder once I start again, will it feel like old times. I worked with my trainer for an entire year, and it seemed like the most natural thing. I thought for sure I'd just keep sticking with it. I'm not even sure how or why I actually stopped getting regular exercise in at home.

I was compensated for this post.

Old Sign!

2008-10-19T22:42:00.001-04:00

I was driving by a little antique store over in Annandale, and they have a giant sign out with their other collections. It says "Reagan-Bush" on it really big. It's funny to see it, since it's political time and everyone has their lawn signs out. To go around the corner and see Reagan's name was funny.

It's an attention getter, that's for sure. What was more shocking was realizing how many years have gone by since then!

Death Note

2008-10-17T17:17:00.002-04:00

We went to see Death Note, which was a Fathom Event the other night. My son is a fan of the show, so I told him I'd go see it. It was rated R, but I'll be honest, I didn't see a reason for that at all. It easily could have been PG-13. I've seen worse PG-13 movies!

Anyway, it ran a little over 2 hours. If you're a fan of Death Note, it was entertaining and wraps up the series. It goes a little off from the original, but leaves you satisfied. People seemed positive about it, but grumbled a little that it didn't stick to the story completely. It's a movie people, they're just trying to make it have a good flow.

Regardless, my son enjoyed it, and that's what it was all about. I even didn't mind sitting through it. It was entertaining, and I'd sat through a couple of the animated episodes with him in the past, so I knew the basic story.

Halloween Weeks Away

2008-10-15T12:49:00.002-04:00

With three loud barking dogs, it's easier for us to go out on Halloween. Each and every time we open the door, they go nuts. IF the doorbell rings, they go nuts, and one of our dogs is a runner if she gets out.

We started a tradition a couple of years ago. We eat dinner out and hit the store. Walmart is next to EMPTY on Halloween. We just wander about and enjoy the quiet. Not sure where we're going to eat this year. We usually do Cracker Barrel once a year, and on Halloween, but we ended up going there about 2 weeks ago, so we'll want to go somewhere different.

Long Drive Never Gets Any Shorter

2008-10-05T21:22:00.002-04:00

A few times a month I do a long 2 1/2 hour drive. It's just part of life. Anyway, each week even when you feel like you're making good time, it's just the same time. You can get caught in traffic, and it's still the same. No traffic, no problem, the time is the same.

How is that even possible?

Anyway, happy to be done with the drive this week. I'll do it a few more this month, and it will take the same.exact.time!

Nothing like getting in your car and going...oh yeah 2 1/2 hours!

Insomnia Got Me Last Night

2008-10-02T09:53:00.002-04:00

I didn't want to wake up this morning; I got to bed late. I forced myself to get up though, so I don't get off pattern. I hate when my brain just keeps going. At one point I could have fallen asleep, but for some reason, I didn't take advantage of it. That moment passed, and it was too late...my brain was off running.

I'm an 11pm girl, but I didn't crash until about 2am. Frustrating as crap!

Thankfully, I didn't have to wake up super early, but I still feel off. This insomnia thing is getting old, and I'd be happy if it would just leave me the heck alone.

Speaking of Computers, Mine is Getting Slow!

2008-09-29T10:25:00.002-04:00

I've had my PC for about 4 years now. We replaced my son's over the holidays, and when his boots up, it amazes me how quickly it does it! Mine is slow to boot up. I keep it on mostly, and do a restart once in awhile. My dad used to work with machines, and said it was harder on the machine with the start up and shut down, then to leave it on. I guess that's not the environmentally friendly way to do it, but my PC is usually on. Of course, I'm sitting here a lot of the time too.

Anyway, mine is getting old! While I don't want it to crash or anything, because that would be bad (yes, I back up)...I still panic that I'll forget something. Either way, I may have to start scoping out some newer machines soon enough.

Yikes, Here I Sit!

2008-09-24T11:17:00.002-04:00

Time gets away from me. It's 11:17, and I have to go out at 12. I didn't even jump in the shower yet, and I've got to get moving.

When I start working on writing, or working on websites, I totally lose track of time, and before I know it, I'm running late! Luckily, I'm not going to cut into someone else's time, and I'm considerate. I'll still get out of here when I'm supposed to, I'll just rush on my end. I don't like to keep people waiting- not cool.

Anyway, I guess I'd better run. When I get back, I'll tell you about my time down LBI and what I was working on!

We've Got Dogs; Hard to Tell With Febreze!

2008-09-20T14:30:00.007-04:00

I have three dogs, so when the opportunity to try the latest Febreze product came out, I was thrilled to give it a go. It's good for fabrics, carpets and air.

We know doggy smell, especially when they come in after playing outside. We're always on the lookout for new products. We have air purifiers, deodorizers, sprays and more. With a moose dog, a Beagle boo, and a Jack Russell, we're always tackling outdoor dog smell.

My husband popped open the Febreze and started spraying. He likes the new grip, as it's easier to hold and sprays nicer. The only thing is, my husband got a little over zealous and sprayed, and sprayed, and sprayed and sprayed! You get the picture? It sure smelled great with lavender and vanilla, but it smelled better when we weren't overwhelmed by the scent! Thanks hon, spraying it 50 times in a row is not a necessity. You can simply spray it a few times, and it does the job.

I'm a huge fan of Febreze, and with three dogs in this house, is it any wonder why? We're always well stocked, and now I have a new variety to add to our mix.

I received a free bottle of Febreze to try out. I was not compensated with money, but did not have to pay for the product. I love Febreze....I don't care if it was free or paid...I love this product.

Just a Little More Travel

2008-09-18T11:03:00.002-04:00

It would appear I'll be traveling once more this season. I'm between two things right now. One would be to go local, pick up some pictures and more information for one of my websites...while the other would be to sit in the sun in Florida again.

I just can't justify going to Florida again. The thing is, we're trying to use something up, so we don't lose money. In the process, we have to spend more money! To me, that feels backwards.

I think I'll just keep the vacation club one more year and use it next year, letting this year's points roll over. We'll see, if I'm itching for sunshine, I may just squeeze in there and use it before the end of the year.

On the other hand, the local trip would be useful, let me make some more contacts, and be easier to do. I have to decide between what I want to do, versus what the best answer really is.

Life of Blogs

2008-09-18T10:47:00.004-04:00

If you're wondering, I haven't come to any final conclusions about the life of this blog. What I do know is that I'm not ready to walk away. I have to ask myself why I'm still choosing to write to certain blogs. I have quite a few.

The thing is, what is my goal, or where do I want my blog to go in the future? I have another SurvivingNJ blog, so do I really need another. It's just my emotional attachment I think.

Something I need to look at is the lifespan of my blogs. At what point have they run their course? At what point do I want to move on? I guess I have some more thinking to do.

Signing Off for a Few Days

2008-09-11T04:54:00.003-04:00

I'm heading out for a few days. I'll be in sunny Florida.

I'm excited to see some friends, learn new things from speakers at a conference, and be in a new environment for awhile.

When I scheduled this, it was about April or May I think! Now, here we are in the middle of September, and I'm heading out shortly.

The funny thing is, I may be returning to Orlando next month. Sometimes, totally unexpected things are cool! I'll give you more details later.

For now, I'd better sign off my computer and finish getting ready. I have to head to the airport soon!

Sun Room Windows Replaced

2008-09-08T10:51:00.001-04:00

We just had to dig into our pockets to replace two of our sun room windows. Of course they aren't under warranty anymore.

The seal got compromised so they got all foggy. Do you know those windows cost about $300 each! That was an expense we weren't thrilled about. What are you going to do? You need to replace them, it's just not fun when you spend that much money and you're not having a good time doing it!

Water Purifier

2008-09-08T10:47:00.002-04:00

My husband was looking at water purifiers last week. He used to have one on the kitchen sink, but the water came out slowly. Of course that was an old model from eons ago. He picked up a few water pitchers that are purifiers too, but couldn't decide if he wanted that or the traditional on the sink kind.

We have hard water, so when he makes his tea, sometimes it tastes funny, so he prefers bottled water for it. With a water purifier, it would save us a lot of money on that. I also use bottled water when I'm working out. That's another savings. That's his thing though, so I'll let him find the one he wants. I'm not picky about stuff like that, but put me in a room full of purses, and that's another story!

Oops! I Just Got a Call

2008-09-08T10:45:00.002-04:00

We love where we take our dogs. We go there often when we travel. We had planned a trip during September, but due to school and my husband's schedule, we changed those plans.

I THOUGHT I had canceled the dogs appointment too. Guess not...

They just called wondering where we were. Rut-roh!

Luckily, we're good clients, so it wasn't a big deal, but I felt badly. :( I didn't mean to leave them hanging. It was an honest mistake.

Myrtle Beach

2008-09-05T11:51:00.005-04:00

There was a technicality in school that made me change my decision about school this year. You can read about it on my main blog at SurvivingNJ.com/blog.

Due to the change in my schedule, it means I'm putting more time back into my websites that I'm continuing to grow. One field I've been dabbling in is travel. While I have websites on places like Long Beach Island, Orlando and Wildwood, I'm also getting into other areas. One area that is being added to the mix is Myrtle Beach.

I spent a week in Myrtle Beach in July this year, and saw such growth in that area. One of the things that stood out to me was all the different license plates. When you go to the Jersey shore, you usually see plates from the surrounding states like New York or Pennsylvania. When you go to Myrtle Beach, you see tags from all across the country! It was really cool to look at the car tags at the resort we were at.

Rt 78 Hopping with Cops

2008-09-01T22:27:00.003-04:00

I was driving on Route 78 earlier tonight, going both directions. Man, I must have seen about 8 traffic stops! They were out and about tonight, making themselves known. I guess with Labor Day and picnics, people are out getting their last yahoo in for the summer. Anyway, they were on full patrol today. I travel that way often, and have never seen so many traffic stops at one time!

August Was a Busy Travel Month!

2008-08-26T15:58:00.001-04:00

I got plenty of beach time in during August, but still I'm aching for a little more. With September rolling around, that was my favorite month to visit the beach. The weather is divine, the crowds are gone, and it's perfect beach time.

This year, my September weekends aren't free, and my weekdays will have me in school. I guess I'll have to wait until 2009 for more beach time. Maybe I'll sneak down one or two days if I can, we'll see.

I'm just not ready to put my sand chair away, not ready to pack up the bathing suit, and not ready to give up my flip-flops just yet.

Shopping for Supplies!

2008-08-26T15:56:00.003-04:00

It felt so weird today being at the grocery store. Here I was picking up food supplies, drinks, snacks and stuff to start packing lunch again. Here I am in my 40's, and going back to school AGAIN!

Seriously, I thought I was done after skin care school, and I thought I was done with packing lunches. I guess not, so there we were filling the cart with easy to make lunch items.

I'll actually cook up a full turkey breast and slice that down for a healthier lunch meat, and do the same with chicken in the future. It just feels weird!

Tattoo Removal?

2008-08-24T21:30:00.003-04:00

I keep hearing about this wrecking balm stuff for painless tattoo removal. I think it's pretty cool that you don't have to go through painful laser removal anymore. How awesome is that?

I currently have two tattoos, but the one on my leg needs to be recolored. I keep thinking I'll get it done, but honestly, having Diabetes, I hesitate, since I heal a little slower and am more prone to infection. My choice is having a half colored butterfly on my leg, or removing it completely.

Have you tried removing a tattoo before? Was it painful? Have you heard about or tried the new wrecking balm stuff?

School Starts Up Too Soon

2008-08-23T18:53:00.000-04:00

Time is racing by this August! I can't believe I start school in less than 2 weeks. I think I need another full month to prepare. I'm still in "going to the shore" mode in my brain. I want a few more weeks to play in the sand and ocean.

No fair! I'm a grown up, I want to play. Okay, okay, I'm the one who signed myself up for school, and it seemed like a good idea at the time. Now that it's inching closer, I'm getting school anxiety, and summer vacation is whooshing past.

Map of New Jersey?

2008-08-21T14:01:00.001-04:00

It’s pretty sad when you need a map of New Jersey and you live here! Ha! I’m good with the area where I live, but when we’re talking about North Jersey, I need a New Jersey road map.

Someone asked me where we were in relation to the Newark Airport, and I honestly couldn’t tell them. It’s somewhere east I said!

People from my area fly out of JFK and Newark, but I still drive a little farther to go to Philly. Let’s face it, once a Philly flyer, always a Philly flyers!

My husband thought it was nuts I booked a phila airport flight, rather than Newark. I laughed and said, “Babe, I’d need a map of New Jersey” to get there...besides I've been to Newark airport before, and I'm not a fan.

Wildwood Days

2008-08-15T12:49:00.002-04:00

I've been working on another website. This time I'm building a Wildwood site, similar to my LBI site. We all know that LBI is my first love, but Wildwood is another place I hold dear. Every since I was a small child, we would visit Wildwood. We never lived that far away, so my parents would pack us up for a 4 day trip to Wildwood in August. LBI was our June trip. I guess because I traveled a lot as a kid, that drive is in me as an adult.

While I love to explore other new places, I still always want to go back to my Jersey shore. Let's face it, we've got some great beaches! Anyway, if you'd like to check out my latest site, I've started it at: WildwoodSummers.com. It's a free resource guide for Wildwood, New Jersey.

I hope to continue working on it and adding more information through the fall, so that it will be in tip top shape for the next beach season.

Home from Sea Isle City

2008-08-15T12:43:00.003-04:00

I'm home. Did you know I was gone for a few days?

I went to Sea Isle City, which is another Jersey shore, for those of you not from this area. It was a nice break again, this time with my sister, niece and mom.

One of the things I like seeing down the shore is everyone who has a convertible has their top down, or you see lots of bikes, whether they're scooters, or crotch rockets, as guys race on their Honda's or Suzuki's.

I love that summer air, and love everyone out riding bicycles, walking everywhere, and enjoying the light ocean breeze. I walked over to the grocery store, back and forth to the beach, and even got to play in the ocean for awhile.

I'm not ready for fall to be here. I want another month or two to play on the beach! Somebody do something, before August is gone. I used to love going to the beach in September. In fact, it's my favorite time down the shore. This year, I'll be in school though, and won't be able to go as often. Oh well, I guess I'll have to wait until next year.

McDonalds and Me

2008-08-08T23:35:00.002-04:00

I've had a love-hate relationship with McDonalds. It's not about the food, it's about a favorite Diet Coke I order there...regularly.

I finally broke that habit, and was drinking water with juice on a daily basis. I'm talking, I kicked that Diet Coke to the road. I was golden, and cruising on months of this new better habit.

Guess what I somehow managed to go back to...that stupid Diet Coke. Yes, it still has to be from McDonalds. Why, oh why did I let myself slide down that path?

I know, I know...you don't have to say it.

The caffeine is evil, the stupid soda is bad for me.

I start school next month, so I'm hoping with routine and schedule, I'll be back to better patterns. I love having no schedule, but lately I'm acting like a rebel and making bad choices.

I'm back onto the straight and narrow...I have to be. It's time...I veered too far off course, and now I'm regretting it.

Clear My Mind and Write

2008-08-08T23:15:00.003-04:00

I've been really distracted lately. I started to build another website, which took me a couple of days to gather info and sort it. Then I've been living in vacation brain mode since I've been out and about so much during the summer.

I finally sat down with my laptop at the shore on Wednesday. I knew my head would clear some, and I'd be able to write. I actually wrote a couple of pieces, and now have to transfer them. By the time I actually do it, they'll be outdated! It felt great though to sit down and write, without outside distractions.

At home being continually plugged into the internet, it's easy to be distracted and surf the web. I think I need to grab my laptop (since we don't have wireless), and go write in another room!

Glutes Causing Havoc

2008-08-08T22:49:00.002-04:00

I'm back from the shore. We came home late last night. I'm scheduled to go back to the shore on Monday, but this time Sea Isle. Fun, cool, exciting, yeah...

Small problem: I had to get a massage tonight to help work out some tightness that's making it hard to sit or stand! Yikes, I need it to clear up by tomorrow, or Sunday at the latest!

Sunday, I have a 2+ hour drive, dropping off my son at his father's. Monday, I'm supposed to pick up 3 other people and drive us to the shore.

Okay naughty muscles, you've had your fun. It's time to feel all better now.

Long Beach Island Time

2008-08-06T10:21:00.002-04:00

I'm heading to the island today. There's something about that place that just pacifies me. I've got all these thoughts swirling in my head, but I know I get to sit on the beach today and just let it all melt away. I'll be there for a couple days, and be back by the weekend.

Next week I head to Sea Isle with my sister. I've only been to Sea Isle once before, and it was over 5 years ago, so I don't remember much about it. I'll be curious to see more of it. Regardless, I'll always be an LBI girl. That's my second home, baby! It's where I find my peace and serenity, on season or off!

What's Next on My Quest?

2008-08-06T10:13:00.004-04:00

There's that piece of me that wants to reach for diet pills, in hopes that maybe they'll make the difference that I need.

I guess it just feels "unfair" to me, that I've worked hard for an entire year, and I'm not seeing any physical results. My mind has changed, as I've grown to understand what I need to do. I've learned a lot, but I still wear the same size clothing. I spent an entire year working with a personal trainer. I've watched other people shed 20 pounds in a 3 months quest on a challenge. September marks a year since training. I actually walked for 3 months prior to that...and still I wear the same size clothing.

I've started medication to help with my blood sugars, and I've been eating better than I have ever. I've made so many good changes, and yet my bloodwork comes back and it's worse. I just don't get it.

My LBI Swicki

2008-07-30T23:23:00.002-04:00

Grab this swicki from eurekster.com

Look what I did...I was playing with a Swicki last night, and made one for my all time favorite destination Long Beach Island! What's your favorite thing about LBI? Do you go there often? Have you never been there? If you'd like to learn more about Long Beach Island, check out my free resource guide!

Streamlining Sites

2008-07-29T12:53:00.002-04:00

I am really on the fence on some of my websites. I have quite a few, and I'm trying to streamline before starting school. For the next year, I won't have as much time to work on my sites and blogs.

I found that I'm emotionally attached to some, while others are more business ventures. For the last 2 years, I've worked from home, and my changing schedule has me in a bit of a panic. It's not that I can't keep up with what I'm doing, it's trying to decide if certain sites are worth the time and effort put in, based on returns. Whether that return is emotional, satisfaction or pride, or financial doesn't matter. Some sites have softer spot with me than others.

It's interesting to really try to look at things you've been working on, and trying to see them with no attachment. What is the site about, what's the purpose, is there an outcome, and are you satisfied with the outcome? I've dropped 2 sites, and while it was freeing in one aspect, there was quite an attachment on the other. I had put 18 months into one of those sites, and a lot of personal stuff. My other site was more of a business venture, so I wasn't tied to it in that manner, but I was happy with how it looked. It just didn't perform where I wanted it to be. While it had potential to grow, I didn't want to spend the time invested in that site, while I have others on my plate.

The question is, what else will I be shedding?

Juggling Food and Times

2008-07-26T11:40:00.001-04:00

I'm trying to follow a food plan this week, and making sure I hit my times pretty regularly works great while I'm at home. If I go out, I need to scramble to get everything in.

I never really thought about how often I go out! I'm on my way out again, so I had to make sure I ate before I left, and I'll need to make sure I eat again in a 3-4 hour timespan. Then I still have 2 more meals to fit in!

I better run, I've got to finish getting ready.

School is Around the Corner

2008-07-25T11:32:00.002-04:00

I have to go out and buy all white sneakers, some white shirts and black pants. Cosmetology school will be starting sooner than later, and I need to gather my stuff.

There's a piece of me that is starting to panic that school is starting. I'm 41, and I thought I was finally done with school. Why do I keep insisting on going back? LOL

I know, I know, but I love to learn. I just don't like the daily Monday to Friday schedule. I'll adjust, and it's just a matter of starting a new routine.

I will enjoy, but I'll drag my feet every step of the way until it's here. Why do I do that? Maybe I should just stop resisting, and let go of that fear. It is what it is...just another day in my life. Get up, go to school, learn...nothing to get freaked out over. Now if I could get my brain to believe it!

Dark Knight

2008-07-23T20:28:00.002-04:00

We keep hearing great reviews about The Dark Knight. I think we're going to catch it this week. Over the weekend, we'll be meeting up with my mom and her boyfriend for lunch. Otherwise, I'm pretty open...so hopefully we'll see it soon.

I can also see if it's appropriate for my son. Sometimes a PG-13 still goes a little over the top. This should be fine. It's not usually the action movies, as much as the comedies who push the envelope with all the sex humor.

Finally Feeling Better!

2008-07-23T20:22:00.003-04:00

So here I was on vacation, and while I had a great time, I was still sick!

What? You heard me right.

I had just finished a dose of antibiotics before leaving on my trip, when half way through, I had to call my doctor from Hilton Head to get another dose. I spent half of each night coughing my head off. I didn't know if the sinus infection had gotten worse, if I'd taken on a pneumonia like I had in the past, a bronchitis or what was going on. At least I knew I could rule out things like whooping cough! I knew that by this point I should have been feeling better!

Finally 10 days into my 2 week trip the coughing stopped. It was like the waters had calmed before the storm. My son was happy, because I kept him up at night from all the coughing. He was in a totally different room, but I was coughing that loud! I felt badly, but I didn't have a way to fix it. I was taking cough stuff, my RX, along with over the counter stuff too!

I'm all better now though, and happy it's behind me. I have no idea what took so long for it to heal. I was ill for the better part of a month! I woke up on my birthday in the middle of June with it! Dear, oh dear and I happy to be feeling well today.